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"win-win solution"

April 15, 2008

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One common thing these pictures have is they are all winners.

A friend and I had a talk about some things and happenings later this afternoon. My friend is on a strained relationship with his girl and planning on a break up (char!)… He loves his girl so much and I think the feeling is mutual. I have nothing to say with his heartaches because i’m not on his place, I just listened because he just needs to ventilate his feelings and i hope it helps. I remember and shared to him what one of my college teacher told us. It’s about "win-win" decision making. It worked for me most of the time if unforgotten. It’s about making a decision that both parties will not end up as losers but instead it’s a decision made that will make both fit in the "win-win" system. To shorten the story up, breaking up with someone who loves you and whom you love also is not a solution that is  parallel to the "win-win" because both of you will end  up as losers if you do. Both parties are hurt. If you think you have just get even, think again because  deep inside your also badly bruised. In every decision u make try figuring out a "win-win solution" and it will make both of you end up as winners. Makes sense :)

To my boyfriend  : ga sorry nawala to sa isip ko lately :) hehehe "win-win solution" palagi ha…:)

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